推荐回答(5个)
要成为受欢迎的必须具备以下条件:\x0d\x0a1、大方得体、有素养,做事成熟;\x0d\x0a2、穿着打扮应正常化普通化,不另类;\x0d\x0a3、为人说话有分寸,诚信、坦诚、灵活;\x0d\x0a4、不要城府太深,善于善于帮助有需要的人等等。\x0d\x0a这样的人必受人们欢迎爱戴。
我们知道,想在职场上混得游刃有余,我们首先需要做的就是要将自己变成一个很受欢迎的人。
人际交往必不可少,有一个很好的交往圈非常好,在这圈子里自己能成为那个受欢迎的人就更好了,我们希望被别人认可、信赖、交心,但是不是谁都能成为那样的人的,这需要长期以往的人品积累、付出、坚持才会得到别人的称赞,会被别人特别喜欢,那么如何做才能变成那样的人呢?在交往圈里能收到大家的普遍欢迎呢?
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能活跃气氛的
一个人若是能在大家中活跃气氛,把现场气氛搞high,说明这个人是很有幽默感、有特殊的个人魅力的,所以要想成为受欢迎的人,这点还是要去做到,能挑起大家感兴趣的话题、能娱乐大家、能起带领作用让大家踊跃起来、久而久之,你的这项特殊的能力会让大家非常喜欢你。
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开得起玩笑的
有句话叫:太认真你就输了。想要成为一个受欢迎的人,很多时候太认真你真的会输了,平常生活中,我们会拿玩笑来调剂生活,来创造娱乐,有时候我们就恰巧成为了被娱乐的对象,被别人开玩笑,在判断真的不是恶意攻击的情况后,我们就得要开得起玩笑,被人调侃,我们可以聪明点在过程中把玩笑引到别人身上,而不是拉下脸不开心,然后被人说成是开不起玩笑的人,谁也不敢随便和你讲话了。我们就是要做到不但不生气,反而要把这个玩笑继续到娱乐更多的人,这样才是放开地玩,大家会觉得你是个很好相处的人,当然会喜欢你,欢迎你了。
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会帮助别人
一个自私的人是绝对不会被欢迎的,能主动帮助别人或者别人有求于你的时候,能伸把手给予帮助的,别人肯定能记得你,当然了那些把别人的帮助当做理所当然的人我们除外,你的善于助人肯定是被大家所称赞的,好人品暴涨呢,当然会受大家的欢迎了。
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能守得住秘密的
当别人对你印象好的时候,可能会跟你分享一些秘密,但是不要外宣,或者别人跟你吐槽,吐苦水,但是你要为他保密,这是别人信任你,所以你不但要为别人守秘密、当别人的倾听者,还可以适当地提些建议或者安慰,绝对地守口如瓶。如此尊重别人的隐私的你,怎会不受欢迎呢。
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有仗义之心的
一个受欢迎的人,绝对不会是冷漠的人,所以想要成为受欢迎的人,肯定要有正义感、仗义心。我们要学会客观地去判断对错,不能因为对方是谁而偏袒,碰到别人处在弱势时要公正地为他说上一句话,这时候别人会对你满满的感激,公道自在人心,你的做法肯定会得到别人的支持的。
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说话留有余地,不咄咄逼人
祸从口出,这张嘴巴最会得罪人了,跟别人交道时切忌说话不要太狠厉,每个人都需要面子的,若是咄咄逼人只会得罪人,就算是人家有错,我们也可以委婉地告知他,或者把自己的观点说给他听,就是不要语气很冲地找气场,把别人的话堵死,不给别人面子,讨论点事跟吵架似的,谁会喜欢呢?所以,温和点好,暖暖的话更容易让大家互相表达清楚,更让人对你有好感。
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言出必行、讲信用
谁都不喜欢说谎的人,谁也不喜欢被放鸽子,所以想要成为一个受欢迎的人必须要做到言出必行,讲信用,这是一个人的品德,有品德的人才会被人信赖,平时生活中,要么我们无法做到不给承诺,若是一旦答应了别人要做到的一定要去完成,有信用的人形象会高大起来的哦,怎么会不受别人欢迎呢。
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女生要做一个受欢迎的人,必须做到以下几点:
1、不要总是出口成脏,不要因为外表的缺陷而自卑
别在意别人瞧不起的眼光,找一些自己擅长的事情,把自己变得越来越优秀,不说则已,要说就要一鸣惊人,努力成为别人的遥不可及。这样的女生最受欢迎。
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2、不要嘲笑别人的缺陷
你完全不知道那些被你嘲笑的人有多伤心,甚至会自卑,做人要接地气,要懂什么叫海纳百川,学会接受不同人的缺点和缺陷,这样才能受人欢迎。
3、学会保养自己的皮肤
女孩子可以不化妆,但用点护肤品也是需要的,永远不要相信女孩子可以长得不好看,当你正真正变好看了,就会发现人生像开挂一样,现在是看脸的时代,只有自己变得越来越好看了,别人才会喜欢你,你才会受欢迎。
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4、该闭嘴的时候就闭嘴
要知道,祸从口出,做事之前要用脑子去想,不是不去想就张口说,话说多了,别人是会厌烦的。有些事情吧,不要跟老师家长对着干,这样的人,长辈们才会觉得你听话,试问,长辈们会喜欢一个不听话的人吗,当然不会喜欢。
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5、小脾气收一收
你的心事别写在脸上,没人愿意去看,开心的笑,不要皱眉头,你会变好看很多,俗话说,爱笑的女孩运气都不会太差,自然运气好了,喜欢你的人就会越多,你就会越受欢迎。
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