这句话是在见到对方时说的,是对过去事情的假设,应该用虚拟语气:If I hadn't tried to meet you, I wouldn't have gone there.
I won't be there if it is not for you.
if it wasn't for you,I wouldn't go there
是已经去过了,还是准备去呢。时态不同。
I won’t go there if not for meeting you .